I am NORMAL. atleast as normal as they get on this website.

INFP

15/F/USA

 

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dirkstryder:

idk man I just read this post and thought yeah, considering that Dirk didn’t grow up in any actual society, he’s got quite a bit of internalized homophobia. like besides his interest in philosophy, all the media he must have consumed must have been super heteronormative. (I mean, since the…

inmydreamimthestar:

Kind of obvious realization I had today: the Homestuck aspects can be categorized as physical, biological, or mental. And they break down pretty symmetrically, with three categories of four each. Physical are Space, Time, Light and Void.
Biological are Blood, Breath, Heart and Life
Mental are Rage, Hope, Doom and MindOf course, the way the categories work, there is a lot of blending between the three. “Blood”, for example, works on a mental level by dealing with the relationships between people as much as the biological process of blood. But it still still seems like a simple way to divide the aspects.
I can’t really see that many connections between this division of the aspects and character’s personalities and alignments, but perhaps I just need more time to think about it…

inmydreamimthestar:

Kind of obvious realization I had today: the Homestuck aspects can be categorized as physical, biological, or mental. And they break down pretty symmetrically, with three categories of four each.

Physical are Space, Time, Light and Void.

Biological are Blood, Breath, Heart and Life

Mental are Rage, Hope, Doom and Mind

Of course, the way the categories work, there is a lot of blending between the three. “Blood”, for example, works on a mental level by dealing with the relationships between people as much as the biological process of blood. But it still still seems like a simple way to divide the aspects.

I can’t really see that many connections between this division of the aspects and character’s personalities and alignments, but perhaps I just need more time to think about it…

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kforshort:

So last night, I was thinking about tiny!Jake who had to burn his Grandmother’s corpse right after watching his home get blown up.

I was thinking about how, at a young age, Jake lost everything and how that shows in the way he’s so scared of losing his friends.

I was thinking about that period…

Anonymous asked
oh for pete's sake! being close to someone dangerously volatile and eventually suffering for it can't be her fault. i don't know if there's any course of action she could have taken that would have stopped what happened, but even if there was, it wasn't her responsibility to find it. (and why shouldn't HE have ended it sooner? he was the one who hated being in this "shithole quadrant"! but no, she's the girl, it's her job to placate and soothe, and if she fails she must be SHUNNED.)

mercurialmalcontent:

i may be reacting too strongly but all the stuff that goes along the lines of “as a girl, it’s her duty to single-handedly be aware of and fix everything related to emotions in a relationship, and if he doesn’t do his part in the relationship at all or share what he feels she should still somehow be aware of and fix it” really, really rubs me the wrong way, because growing up that sort of thinking by other parties messed a lot with my visibly-female autistic ass.

Anonfriend, if you’re reacting too strongly then I’m reacting like that right along with you. (Same thing happened to me, growing up - much sympathy.) That’s exactly what’s happening and it’s shitty and stupid. It’s victim-blaming and in absolving Eridan of responsibility it also strips him of all agency. The whole “Feferi was at fault too” line of thinking is saying that Eridan was basically helpless to be anything but an irritating murder machine unless Feferi said some magic words. LO fucking L.

Like, you have a really good point there. If Eridan hated how things were going so much, why was it Feferi’s job to fix everything? Why wasn’t HE doing some goddamn fixing? Why wasn’t he using his goddamn agency? (Because misogyny, that’s why; poor precious boy’s feelings must be anticipated and catered to! MAGIC WORDS.)

Realistically, there was nothing Feferi could have done to stop Eridan short of forcibly restraining or killing him. You can’t make someone see sense, you can’t make them be a better person, you can’t make them choose to use their words or deal with their problems in healthy ways. All the perfect actions and words in the universe won’t do anything if the other person doesn’t choose to act differently. It doesn’t matter if she was somehow at 13 the most amazing and perfect therapist in any universe; if Eridan didn’t choose to listen to those words and apply them, they wouldn’t do any good.

There is often some hidden “but if she’d just given him a chance” sort of thinking in trying to pretend Feferi was at fault, but I think the results would have been exactly the same, but with her feeling even more beleaguered and emotionally used until they’d have duel that’d make the one between Eridan and Sollux look like a slap fight.

Anonymous asked
i've always thought cronus and kankri had a vague unsettlingly close and mutually destructive vibe, like two peas from an equally terrible pod. (i've wondered, though--if kankri saw him do his unambigously terrible thing, would he call him on it? on the one hand he rants at everyone for any misstep, but on the other that might well mean he goes for a bogus "fair and balanced" approach for something minor and winds up victim-blaming. plus he's absolutely terrible at social justice.)

mercurialmalcontent:

I honestly don’t think Kankri would call Cronus on it, or not in any productive way - you hit the nail on the head, he canonically goes for a bogus “fair and balanced” approach in Act 6 Intermission 3 Part 3 (de-quirked for your convenience):

KANKRI: I feel I should jump in here at this moment, before this escalates any further, and we start throwing around hateful rhetoric that we can’t take back.

MEENAH: [# aw shell no]

KANKRI: Mituna, I know you often struggle with this, but you just used an extremely derogatory and hurtful caste-specific slur, which you probably know was once commonly used to disparage sea-dwelling members of our society, or land-dwelling castes who were especially complicit in furthering the oppressive Fuscia-Down power structure. Now, we all need to realize that Royal-Vs and those rare few who are even higher such as Meenah, as members of this aristocracy enjoy a tremendous position of privilege over others, and therefore we cannot view such verbal transgressions against them as equivalent to those targeting the underprivileged, but it needs to be pointed out that such radioactive language is absolutely the worst kind of well-poisoning which is nothing but counterproductive when others are trying to pursue an honest dialogue about critically important social problems. [# slurs #hurtful #struggle #radioactive #well poisoning #counterproductive #problems]

MITUNA: ……………..,….

KANKRI: And Meenah, while I can understand your frustration over being verbally assaulted under any circumstance, it is incumbent on me to remind you that Mituna requires a certain amount of special consideration and more than a little patience. Please try to resist taking his bait, which I’m guessing is mostly well intended(?), before its contentious undertow pulls you further into an exchange laden with deeply problematic expressions of ableism, ableist slurs, and other such manifestations of unconscionably unchecked ability privilege. [#ableism #ability privilege #bait #undertow #are the aquatic terms helping?]

Then he has some very backhanded and roundabout abuse of his own to give to Mituna 

KANKRI: On the other hand, if I’m being honest, I’ve found Mituna’s entire existence to be a pretty problematic impediment to the advancement and overall awareness of ableism and its painful manifold consequences for unabilitied persons. The speech impediment, frankly, I could do without, and I’m by no means ecstatic over his torrential bigotry and hostility. On the one hand, I want to be sensitive to him as a person and as a friend, but on the other, what kind of message does his behavior send? And frankly, I’m not crazy about the helmet either.

MITUNA: what’s wrong with my helmet 8(

KANKRI: Nothing, friend, it’s a really cool helmet and it’s a good look for you. But are we now to assume that all those who are stricken with your particular disadvantage will be similarly prone to require such headgear, due to falling down and hitting their heads frequently?

MITUNA: but i do fall down and hit my head frequently

KANKRI: Oh, I know you do, and I think you should continue wearing it for your safety, particularly if you continue to insist on floundering about on your dangerous toy. It’s more about the unfortunate message you are sending overall, with certain aspects of your personality and existence, that’s all.

MITUNA: i’m sorry

KANKRI: As a friend, I wouldn’t want to change anything about you, well, not most things. I just think you may be doing yourself or those who are similarly disadvantaged any favors with, what I’m hoping, is a perfectly innocent array of traits and mannerisms. But again, I say this with all due sensitivity.

MEENAH: vantas youre being a shit dont talk about him like that

Kankri is all about looking good and using the right words. If anything, he’d probably lecture Cronus about using ‘problematic’ language and then make some helpful suggestions for backhanded compliments and passive-aggressive insults that are okay because they don’t use any taboo words.

(Check out the rest of the conversation, too; Kankri jumped in to lecture them about their language and concern troll about them ‘hurting the discourse’, and insinuate again that Mituna is too stupid to know what he’s doing with “it is incumbent on me to remind you that Mituna requires a certain amount of special consideration and more than a little patience.” This, even though Meenah engages with Mituna like an actual person. Sadly, she treats Mituna better than anyone we see interacting with him except for Latula, and at least they seem to be exchanging insults, not her just running him down with words like Kankri and Cronus do.)

What he would have done about the inappropriate touching… I’m honestly not sure, in the sense of “I don’t know if he’d actually be willing to admit how awful it is or not”. Would he actually be blowing his whistle and stepping in because Cronus violated Mituna’s clearly stated no, or would he give a lecture on consent that would amount to “don’t touch until you’ve annoyed a yes out of him”? 

I’m not up to thinking about that at the moment, though. X(

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prospitans:

so i was looking up a reference picture of the handmaid for some rp shenanigans, but i wasn’t paying attention and google autofilled my search from ‘the handmaid’ to ‘the handmaid’s tale’. curious, i clicked on the wikipedia and read a little about it.

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The Handmaid’s Tale is a dystopian…

Why I Like Equius Zahhak

ilikehomestuckproject:

by ohthewhomanity

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Let me start by saying that, yes, Equius Zahhak is an abso100te classist jerk. Karkat introduces him to the comic with the well-deserved title of “THE ONLY GUY ON THE PLANET WHO’S A BIGGER ASSHOLE THAN ME.” He bosses around each and every one of his friends,…

Why I Like Nepeta Leijon

ilikehomestuckproject:

by ohthewhomanity

So, say you’re scrolling down Tumblr and you see an unlabeled audio post. You click on the link and hear a cheerful melody of meowing cats. “Aww!” you think. “This is an adorable song! I wonder what it’s called.” Fortunately for you, the original poster has provided a link…

Why I Like Meenah Peixes

ilikehomestuckproject:

by lackadaisicallexicon

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Meenah Peixes. Punk, powerful, princess, pink. She’s a powerhouse of a character for someone Hussie said was intended as an apology to all the Pisces out there who had Feferi (who, despite negotiating the dream bubbles and thus enabling the entire sixth act,…

bethrevis:

you could kill a man in any of these dresses, and pretty sure no jury would convict you. those are killing-men dresses, that’s what i’m saying

(Source: thedaymarecollection)

hallowkorg:

happy halloween. its fucking halloween every day from now until the end of october. happy fucking halloween

Anonymous asked
I don't believe that Supernatural has a gif for EVERYTHING. Here are a few I am pretty positive you guys do not have. 1-bacon 2-tutu 3-Amazon 4-lube 5-sock puppet/sock monkey (whatever you call them) 6- mirror 7-toothpaste 8-duck and a challenge one I doubt you will get (no just pasting it on there!) Britney Spears. If you guys have these I will bow down to the spn fandom bc omg

obsessedwith-castiel-dean-sam:

Haha you asked for it. Get ready to BOW DOWN! Because we have a gif for…image

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2-tutu

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3-Amazon

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4-lube

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5-sock puppet/sock monkey (whatever you call them)

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6- mirrorimage

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8-duck

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(aka Jensen Quackles)

or if I can’t use manips—image

and a challenge one I doubt you will get (no just pasting it on there!)Britney Spearsimage

Do you hear that? It is that Queen song playing in the background…

♫ “We are the champions, we are the champions…no time for losers…Cuz we are the champions…of the world…♫image